Position: The woman entwines her limbs and arms into his, like tendrils of a fragrant jasmine creeper. The couple then draws taut in an embrace, moving with a relaxed gentle rhythm, swaying their hips in unison.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate the position (1 as horrible, 10 as sexual nirvana)? 7
Did you have difficulty getting into the position? Coordinating each others limbs to wrap within each other is not as simple as you would imagine.
Did you feel like a pretzel? Yes
Were you able to do the motions once in position? This position is very much like the Argentine Tango. You have to connect through the heart and move with an internal rhythm. It is best that you allow one person to lead while the other follows.
Any recommendations on getting either in or out of this position: It is easiest if one person lies still while the other person wraps themselves within their embrace. Once you have a good connection, you can each move around to make it more comfortable and free flowing.
How long did you last in the position? 30 minutes
Enjoyment once you were in position (for the woman): Yes
Enjoyment once you were in position (for the man): Yes
Was the position comfortable? Were you able to relax?
Man: Yes, this is very relaxing and sensual. It gave me plenty of control over my orgasm and also allows me to feel my partner and pleasure her through lovemaking itself without any external aides or digits.
Woman: This was very comfortable and relaxing for my partner because she was able to relax and allow her orgasm to build slowly and naturally. There was no pressure, no hurry and no exertion involved for either of us.
Would you consider this to be an intimate position (Why or why not)? Intimate is everything that this position has going for it. It is the slow pace of getting to know each other and find pleasure within just an embrace that builds a sort of bond. You each have the goal to pleasure each other and the only way you eventually accomplish that is through communication and getting to know each others bodies in a very intimate realm.
Are you achy or sore after the fact?
What did the position feel like (both mentally and physically) in 50 words or less? This position could be described as a mental orgasm. Instead of focusing on the physical action going on, much of the pleasure is through concentrating on the intense orgasm that you're holding off and allowing to build into a real monster.
Did she reach orgasm? She had three “big” orgasms and two smaller ones.
Did he reach orgasm? I myself orgasmed twice. The first occurring early on with relaxed expectation, bringing the opportunity for an second round with even more excitement and exclamation.
Did it take longer than usual to reach orgasm? Yes it did, but this was exactly what we wanted to do.
Would you do this position again (why or why not)? Yes, this could actually be used for the definition of “making love”. This was has Tantra written all over it and if you enjoy prolonging your orgasms then it is guaranteed to be a favorite of yours too.
Any suggestions to make the position more pleasurable: This position is for those nights when you have had a long day, are tired, stressed out, need a hug and would like some Kama Sutra without all the acrobatics involved. This is NOT good for quickies or “on the spot/at the moment” sex because it actually takes time. Concentration and almost a meditation to get into a truly orgasmic groove. If not done properly, this position will be very boring and it will lose its appeal quickly. Trust in the sensuality of the mind and the body to bring you past the normal pleasures and friction into a whole new realm of Tantra!