Remember the sitcom My Two Dads? It aired from 1987-1990. Two single guys who were fighting for a lady's affections are awarded joint custody upon her death. It was also incorrectly credited as "the first true gay sitcom." We've come a long way (thank you Will & Grace) since then. To help iron out things even further, Brett Mitchell-Webb has written a new book on the subject of parenting while gay. On Being a Gay Parent: Making a Future Together covers all the basics that are sure to arise in any household and some that would happen only in a same-sex one. 7 p.m. The Lesbian and Gay Community Center, 1401 Central Ave. 704-333-0144. www.gaycharlotte.com/www.onbeingagayparent.com.