Ray Broome of Cornelius contacted Kristin after he became overwhelmed in trying to manage his home office. Broome says he attributes his inability to keep his office organized to Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD), a condition he was diagnosed with several years ago.
"I couldn't focus on anything," Broome says. "It was like sensory overload. I had boxes everywhere with notes and paperwork. It took accepting that I had a problem before I could ask for help."
Broome started working with Kristin a few months ago, and together they started the methodical process of going through every box while determining what to throw away and what to keep. "Kristin said "I can't throw it out for you, but I can tell you to throw it out.' A person that doesn't have an awareness of the characteristics of ADD, their patience would have grown real short, but not her. She helped me with establishing structure. Now I don't let stuff pile up to where I have boxes with tons of papers stuffed in them.
"I needed that outside help; that kick in the tail," Broome continues. "What I've found is that it's very freeing. It sounds like it's confining, but you no longer dwell on this stuff when it's in place. Now I can function at my highest level."
In most cases, chronic disorganization is a symptom of ADD or depression. Susan's family has a long history of depression, and for years she's been seeing a therapist and taking medication to overcome the disorder. Moreover, Susan says her sister, mother and grandmother are all "hoarders." "It's horrible -- you can't even get in my sister's house," Susan says. "When my grandmother died, they basically had to bulldoze her house because it was so full of junk."
The problem plagued Susan even when she wasn't at home. "At work, people would think I had it together, and the whole time I was thinking, "God, if you could see what was going on at my house.' Friends would invite me over, and then they'd expect me to invite them to my house, but I just couldn't."
About four months ago Susan had finally had enough, and while searching the web, came across POS and del Rosso.
"When I first started working with Susan she could barely open her front door," del Rosso says. "Literally every square inch was covered. It was really bad."
Faced with such an overwhelming mess, del Rosso says you have to develop a game plan, divide the cleanup in manageable tasks, and tackle one section at a time. But first, del Rosso had to establish trust and a kind of partnership with Susan.
"We talked for several hours," del Rosso says. "She said she was afraid to get rid of this stuff because she'd feel lonely. I told her that was valid, but right now you can't even have people in your house. Which one is more important -- having all this stuff, or being able to invite a friend over? Finally, she said she was ready."
They started with the bedroom, then the den, next came the living room, finally the closets. "It's a purging process," del Rosso says. "It's very tiring and scary for them, but once they start to see progress, they get motivated and want to continue."
Susan estimates they must have bagged up and thrown away at least 25 big garbage bags of clothes, and says she's now focusing on the rules she and del Rosso established so she can do it on her own.
"Having another person there and being accountable helped me get rid of stuff easier," Susan says. "When I could actually see my floor it was a huge relief. I still have the urge to hold on to things, that doesn't go away, but now I can control it."