Don't know? Well let me help you out with that ... here are my party picks for the weekend.

Friday - party at the Time Warner Cable Arena - the Bobcats will be the belle of the ball. Pun intended.

Saturday - There are a lot of races in Charlotte ... NASCAR races ... Race for a Cure ... the mayoral race. But this weekend the Go Urban Adventure Race will be in town. A scavenger hunt based on text clues and physical and mental challenges. Kinda like the Amazing Race, minus all the reality show drama. Two person teams can register on-line.

Sunday - Runway for the Ballet Now this is like Project Runway meets So You Think You Can Dance. This fashion -slash- dance show will feature feature fashions from Morrison Boutique, Black & Blue, eMartini, Scout and Molly’s, and ChezElle on the runway and NC Dance Theatre’s Innovative Works will take the stage. All this strutting and sashaying will benefit the North Carolina Dance Theatre. And did I mention there will be catering from RuSans and wine from Aroogi's Wine Room